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Dr. Jeff Kisling - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
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Sometimes, we just hurt.

Perhaps you are reeling from a betrayal, or the pain of a relationship somehow gone wrong.

Maybe you yearn to be close, but instead, you feel disconnected or taken for granted. You wonder why you are together.

Sex might be unsatisfying or perhaps even non-existent. You find yourself dreading the expectations of romance.

Perhaps you are exhausted from fighting. You wonder whether the only option left is ending your relationship.

Your relationship doesn't have to be this way. Your life can be better.

Whether from a relationship or something else, pain is a warning that something important needs attention. 

And when that pain is repetitive, it's telling you that it's not going to be enough to simply put things back the way they were.

Whatever it's source, pain is your signal that it's time to change something in your life for the better.

That it's time for more. To heal. To grow. For a more satisfying life and relationship.

If any of this sounds like you, I want to help you build a relationship with less pain and a life with more fullfillment.

Specially trained with over 25 years of experience, I can help you create the kind of fulfilling relationship and life you want.

Do you want more of any of these?

  • Closeness and open-hearted intimacy
  • The end of destructive arguments
  • Sexually satisfying erotic play
  • Shared purpose and shared respect
  • Relationship repair from betrayal
  • Deeper loving acceptance and trust
  • Recovery and freedom from past trauma

If you answered "yes," I invite you to take the next step for a better relationship and life.

Click the button below for a free first appointment. There's no cost or obligation to you.

Have questions but not quite ready for an appointment? Fill out the form below, or call me at 425-247-1880. I will get back to you to confidentially answer your questions and concerns. 

If you live in Washington, California or Texas, ask me whether online sessions may be an option for you.
Life can sometimes be difficult.
Love doesn't have to be.

Jeff Kisling, Ph.D., MFT
counseling • sex therapy • online consultation
After serving Silicon Valley and the Peninsula for 25 years, I have moved my practice to Redmond, Washington. If you are seeking a therapist in Silicon Valley or the Peninsula, click here. If you want to contact me, click here.
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Redmond, Washington 98052
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