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Dr. Jeff Kisling - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
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You're tired of hurting. 
And you're ready for change.

Perhaps you are struggling with the pain of a relationship gone sour, or the trauma of a personal betrayal.

You yearn to feel understood and be close, but instead, you feel disconnected, unheard, and taken for granted.

Maybe too many long work hours and career stress has put your marriage at risk, and divorce now threatens all that you cherish.

Perhaps there has been an affair, or porn has come between you. Or sex feels empty and you want to be more than just roommates.

Your life doesn't have to be this way. You can have better.

Whether it's from a relationship or something else, pain is a warning that something important needs attention. 

When pain is repetitive, it's telling you that it's not going to be enough to simply put things back the way they were.

You need more. To heal. To grow. To build a more satisfying life and relationship.

Whatever it's source, pain is your signal telling you that it's time to change something in your life for the better. 

Counseling can help you break free of your pain and build a relationship and life that is more full and rewarding.

Counseling can help you resolve stubborn problems and find new ways to the kind of life and relationship that you've always wanted.

Ask yourself: do you want more of any of the following?

  • Closeness and open-hearted intimacy
  • Sexually satisfying erotic play
  • Expanded meaning and shared purpose
  • Deepened acceptance and increased trust
  • Freedom from past trauma or betrayal

If you answered "YES" to any of these, maybe NOW is the time for your next step.

With more than 25 years experience helping hundreds of men and women and couples, it is likely that I can help you.

Click the button below and book a FREE consultation. There's no obligation and it's confidential.

Not quite ready for an appointment? Contact me by filling out the contact form below, or call 425-247-1880. 

I will call you back for a free 20-minute consultation to confidentially discuss your needs and situation.
​Life can sometimes be difficult.
Love doesn't have to be.

                                        Dr. Jeff Kisling
                                        Healthy Relationships 
                                        Healthy Sexuality

After serving Silicon Valley and the Peninsula for 25 years, I have moved my practice to Bellevue, Washington. If you are seeking a therapist in Silicon Valley or the Peninsula, click here. If you want to contact me, click here.
at the offices of inLifeClinic
3055 112th Avenue NE, Suite 125
Bellevue, Washington 98004
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  Palo Alto, California
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Dr. Jeff Kisling, Marriage and Family Therapist, Bellevue, Washington, 98004