Sometimes, we just hurt . . .

We find ourselves struggling in our most important relationship. 

Though we want to feel close and be understood, too often things 
escalate into fights or descend into a silent, deafening freeze. 

We feel unmet, frustrated or disappointed. Even unwanted.

In times like these, we feel heart-pain from something 
gone wrong. There is a disconnect; we do not feel heard. 
Sex is not what it was. Unable to get unstuck, we may
hurt those we love with our misplaced anger. Perhaps 
we try to displace our pain by acting-out sexually. Or
maybe we try to avoid it through online porn or gaming. 

In times such as these we may find it's not going to 
be enough simply to put our life back together the way 
it was. We realize that we need to go beyond, so we can 
love and live more fully.

Psychotherapy and sex therapy can help you gain the 
practical insights and skills to heal, to grow, for a deeply 
satisfying life and loving relationship:

  • Replace sexual frustration with fulfilling intimacy
  • Learn how to use conflict to enrich your love
  • Build open-hearted communication between you
  • Find freedom from past trauma and betrayal
  • Overcome stubborn problems with new skills
  • Stop the overwhelm of anxiety and depression
  • Build a lifestyle resilient with purpose and direction
  • Create a haven of compassion and acceptance

Individual and Couple Psychotherapy can help you develop 
what you need from within yourself, for the kind of 
relationship you want.

Sex Therapy can help you overcome the obstacles blocking 
the satisfying and fulfilling sexual partnership you desire.

It has been my privilege to walk alongside hundreds of men 
and women for over 20 years, helping create relationships 
resilient with love, passion, and mutual support. If you are 
ready to explore how psychotherapy or sex therapy can help 
you, email me or call me at (650) 948-2701. I will call you 
back to confidentially discuss your situation and needs.
Dr. Jeff Kisling
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
verified by Psychology Today verified by Psychology Today Directory
​Help for Life, Love & Intimacy
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Dr. Jeff Kisling - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
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111 Main Street, Suite 5 - Los Altos, CA - phone (650) 948-2701
​Help for Life, Love & Intimacy
Sex Therapy - Individual Psychotherapy - Couple Therapy
Dr. Jeff Kisling - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist